I have a motto that I try and live by, well, one of many. But this one should be beneficial to all.
Stay silent until the information you have gathered is useful to be shared.
There are many times when it's more beneficial to play dumb to what others are saying about you. Pretend you don't know. Pretend to be unbothered. We all know it bothers us...gets under our skin, but don't show it. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing that you're bothered. Play dumb to their words. It annoys them more than you realize.
We were given two ears and only one mouth for a reason. Same thing applies to our brain. Think more than you speak. Figure out your next step. Think about the things that make YOUR life better. Happier.
Sometimes, sometimes it's best to keep your mouth shut. Not everyone needs to know what you're thinking. Some things should be kept quiet...until it's beneficial to share them.
Pay attention to everything. EVER-Y-THING. Watch movements, listen to the words, witness the actions. It will pay off in the end.
Silence IS golden. Silence drives most people crazy. Do your research. Gather the knowledge. Use it when it's relevant.
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